missyplatinum:

mangaguitar96:

missyplatinum:

I literally just made up a fake alias becus this guy wouldn’t stop following me and asking me questions and I was so scared

Ugh I know the feeling. A few months ago I had a guy in my college checking me out and he was giving me the creeps (he even went to me “I’m surprised the geeks don’t go after you” which pissed me the hell off.) he asked for my number and I thought I was judging a book by its cover and I gave it to him. Big ass mistake on my end. He wouldn’t leave me alone, constantly wanted to get together outside of school and I constantly told him I’m busy and he didn’t realize I was lying!! One day he really crossed the line with me by constantly texting me in class (my teacher was understanding fortunately) and he brushed it off as no big deal and followed me like a lost puppy. While I’m trying to study and I’m still pissed at him he asked me on a date even though I told him I wasn’t interested. He started begging me to forget this and I told him he made it awkward and not taking it nicely, he went into my classroom which we were outside my class and he goes in and asks my classmates that arrived early if it was awkward. I was so embarrassed that I took off when I got a call my cat was sick. I left for the bathroom and when I returned he was leaving and tried apologizing, and I told him to go away. Trust me sweetheart, men don’t get the point sometimes.

damnn it’s just amazing how they don’t back off. Like they need to see it from our perspective how creepy it becomes when they keep pushing… And omg yeah never give ur number out!! Makes things hella worse..I hope that finally got rid of him :/ And with this guy I literally gave him short, brisk answers and I didn’t even look at him and I was practically running with how fast I was walking, praying he would go away its like WHYY would you still follow me??? I gave no inclination that I was interested ://

It did get rid of him fortunately but men need to understand that when a woman is feeling uncomfortable he needs to say “ok, she’s not interested, leave her alone.” After that situation I’m very on the fence of giving my cell number out. Unless I feel I can truly trust the person then I will give it out. Things will be ok in the end @missyplatinum. It may seem a little grim right now but just keep your head up. 🙂

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