doodledearest:

PSA, Healthy and Unhealthy Shipping Habits

Healthy

•Enjoy ships

•Not letting ship effect your manners or actions (Don’t act like the characters)

•Kindly talking to others about each other’s preference

•Spreading positivity

•Ignore hate, do not insult them back

•Do not start the hate

Unhealthy

•Obsessing over ship you hate

•Nagging at others because you don’t like their ship

•Putting your time in effort into something to hurt people who don’t ship the same as you

•Attacking people when they make post asking others to get along

Please understand, I did not make this to argue, I made this to express that ships are fictional, and what you may consider unhealthy, uncanon, forced, or even plain unappealing does not mean other feel the same. Nothing is more unhealthy then focusing on something you hate rather then moving on to something you like. And I know what a lot of you are saying “They insult us, so we don’t put up with it and do the same”. Which is true! I’ve been attack by anti and pros of the same ships before, neither side is innocent, yet it hasn’t stopped me from saying we need to act like healthy people and not weirdos who spend hours insulting people behind a screen because they like made up relationship that we don’t like!

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